@jcook ,
And for AAR when closing to contact position and when in contact, keep a very close eye on the director lights and your relative position to the tanker. As mentioned above, tiny, tiny tweaks on the throttle to keep or return to “Green&Green”. The jet does not respond instantaneously to changes in thrust. I am almost never below 299 or above 301 knots under the tanker ( unless I really dorked up the approach).
You’ll really never find a “set it and forget it” throttle setting during AAR ‐ your jet is taking on thousands of pounds of fuel, very quickly. Unless compensated for, that will add weight and necessitate a change in thrust and/or pitch (tiny though they might be) in order to maintain contact with the tanker.
Keep practicing! I really enjoy tanking in BMS using the Viper TQS. Sooo much smoother than my old Cougar throttle with electrical pots…And in VR, the experience is even better (and IMHO) easier than in non-VR. YMMV. Practice often and you will become consistenty better. Easy does it on the stick and throttle. Tiny, tiny tweaks and watch the lights…
Then for a REAL challenge, get in an FA-18 and try basket refueling…
Regards,