When chasing frames is more important than playing the sim, there’s a problem. Turn the frame counter off and just play. Spend your time learning the new nuances of the avionics instead of staring at a (mostly) irrelevant number in the corner of the screen.
I generally agree with you. But like Harlequin pointed out, when it degrades the experience, or I feel the need to be conservative with TGP and Mav screens it does take me a bit out of the sim. Never started counting frames until recently.